ANBL's 10 Prom Tips for Parents

ANBL's 10 Prom Tips for Parents

What's the plan? Learn your kids' plans in advance. Know where they'll be and with whom. Ensure they've thought through how to deal with difficult situations, what kind of security there will be at big parties and how they'll be getting home. Offer to role-play if it helps them better prepare.
No liquid limos. If your child plans to hire a limo with friends, make sure the company doesn't allow drinking in the car.
Talk it up. Talk with other parents and school officials about how to ensure prom activities are safe. If you're hosting a party, consult other parents about their teenagers' parties. Their experience may be invaluable.
Action! If you are planning a grad party, help your kids choose a theme and organize alcohol-free activities, such as dancing, games and contests to keep guests busy.
Snack attack. At any party, provide substantial snacks and non-alcoholic drinks. Cheek out the ANBL's recipes for delicious, alcohol-free Mocktails.
Take stock. Always know how much alcohol there is in your home; put bottles away after use so you don't send your kids the message you'll be going back for numerous refills; and try not to make your liquor cabinet the focus of any given room.
Follow the leader. Behaviour speaks louder than words. The best way to teach your kids about responsible alcohol use, besides talking, is to set a good example. Set rules about alcohol and ensure your kids know they are not to be broken.
Your responsibility. Remember, it's illegal to serve alcohol to those under 19. Make it clear you won't tolerate underage drinking, excessive drinking by adults, or drinking and driving. If you host a party, you're responsible for your guests' behaviour until they're sober, even after they leave your party. If they are involved in a crash or hurt someone, you could be held liable. You may want to check on your home insurance policy to be sure your liability coverage is sufficient. Never hesitate to call the police should things get out of hand.
Watch those numbers. In order to keep parties manageable, consider setting a reasonable limit on the number of guests. Some form of adult supervision, or security for larger parties, is a must. Work with other parents, the school or community members to discourage or prevent "bush" parties, which can easily get out of hand.
Plan ahead. Plan in advance, with your teenagers, what to do should drug use take place. Also have a plan in place in the event someone gets sick or intoxicated. Be prepared to ensure guests get home safely.